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austuser
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Post by austuser »

wow thats lovely.

so tell me whyme, have any of these friendly girls accepted your offer for a date?


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Post by hungrygirl »

I would, but im (way) out of his age requirement. :)
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So you would fly all the way to New Jersey or New York for a date? =D>
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Post by whyme »

austuser wrote:wow thats lovely.

so tell me whyme, have any of these friendly girls accepted your offer for a date?
no dates yet, i'm still looking \:D/ hehe. where are you girls!?

i am in NJ Busted and i'll drive anywhere i have to to go to go on a date, i live a boring life i need some kind of excitement in it :P .
in another case if i had to drive 10hr+ just to meet a girl i love i'll drive it!
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hungrygirl wrote:I would, but im (way) out of his age requirement. :)
what age if you don't mind saying? :P why don't you take the time to advertise your ad now hehe, you probably will find someone close to you..
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Post by hungrygirl »

So you would fly all the way to New Jersey or New York for a date?
If i didnt hate flying i would. I did go to Paris once for a date and also from Greece to Turkey. Wouldnt you?

what age if you don't mind saying? why don't you take the time to advertise your ad now hehe, you probably will find someone close to you..


I'm already taken. As you were out of the question (im more than 10 years older than you) ;)
I've sent you a pm.
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Post by Busted »

hungrygirl wrote:
So you would fly all the way to New Jersey or New York for a date?
If i didnt hate flying i would. I did go to Paris once for a date and also from Greece to Turkey. Wouldnt you?
It depends if it's a girl I really like or not. I9f it's someone unknown, I don't think i would.
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emotional rescue wrote:What i´m trying to say is thakfully you haven´t experience what is to deal with this when you are a teenage: it really fucks your mind man. No teenage is mentally prepared to deal with something like this.
I agree 100% with emotional resque. It does slowly **** your mind up. I remember it all started when I was about 14 too. My freshman year at highschool I was actually still pretty social. I had one or two friends who complained about my bb a lot. But at that time I didn't think it was something serious, I thought: "ya know everyone has bb from time to times." But my situation was clearly different. The funny thing was that no one ever bullied me for it, they were just being plain honest. Maybe they felt sorry for me, I don't know.

My second year I still had some friends I talked to, although they thought I was very weird, because I would talk to them from 5 meters away. I did this because I was more self conscious about it, because my brother told me not to talk to people from such a close distance, otherwise they wouldn't talk to me if they smelled my bb. So that's actually what I did. I started to notice all these reactions from other people when I talked to them. From touching their noses to coughing...oh well any reaction you guys are familiar with. I knew I was makin other people very uncomfortable. They would even wait a couple of seconds before they would say anything back with a very uncomfortable look on his face.

My third year we moved to another country, and that's when I couldn't bring myself to make any friends. It was a new school and eventually teachers tried to help me, but then they saw that I didn't wanted to talk to any of my classmates, which got them to think I didn't wanted any friends. I was as anti-social as possible. I created a world of imaginary friends and this is pretty much the only thing that kept me goin. I know it's sad, but as soon as I saw a reaction when I said somerthing to someone, I felt really low. I'm starting to think that I would have been much better off if there was some kind of medication that would keep my mind off the whole bad breath thing, since there is no cure available yet. Lucky I still talked to my family though, cause I know they wouldn't mind if I made them uncomfortable, so I wasn't completely anti-social. I was also constant ly paying attention to other loner students. There were some, but when they talked to someone, they didn't seem make any other persons uncomfortable, and they were also pretty confident e.g. they would look the other person straight in the eyes. I remember I always thought "Damn, why would you choose to be a loner, it sucks, why not communicate as much as you can, you don't even have to be careful".

This lasted for 4 years until now I'm in college. I thought I would have found the cure by now. Sometimes I still see some old students that were in the same highschool as me and when they see me they are like "Look that's the kid who's always alone" and of course makin fun of me. I always thought that if they suffered from the same problem, they wouldn't be where they are now, making fun of someone. But I have learned how to deal with this now, I usually just ignore them.
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Post by noptical »

Busted, don't mind other people, they're the ignorant ones, not we. If they only lived half of what we go through...
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emotional rescue wrote:i don´t agree with you austuser,

If i don´t remember bad, you said you realize that you have bb 1 year ago or something,
well let my tell you, you´re lucky. I
my bb started when i was in high school, about 16. so whatever

you completely ignored my point. whyme seems to be doing ok anyway. just needs to stop begging for a date.

we should post pics up here so we can get an online dating service going :lol:
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Post by emotional rescue »

I think all of us have problems with confidence, much or less. Otherwise i don´t think we would be constantly coming to this site, many of us 7 days a week.

I thought i read a post of you when you say that you realized this problem last year or something like that, but i must wrong.
Anyway, i thought i was taking your point very in consideration and whyme´s too, cause that was the point of my own post. otherwise i´wont even wrote it.

do you have a girlfriend?? don´t get me wrong, i´m just curious about how many people here was able to do a real normal life, including normal relations with opposite sex.

again, don´t get me wrong,
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Post by oceanside »

I think we should post our pictures, start up some kind of internet relationship, after all we ARE "SOULMATES". To me, soulmates means someone completely understand your innert soul and suffering. We definately know how each other feels.

Jimi, should set up a place where we can post pictures, meet people and just give ourselves an opportunity to live a normal live as best as we can. Afterall they do it on myspace, match.com, ect.

I had a girlfriend last year. She was one of the best thing that happend to me in a very long time. She made me forget about my problem. I guess I was happy that someone loved me for who I am and not what I smell like.

I will be the first to put up my picture so se can know each others more than behind a computer screen.

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oceanside wrote:I think we should post our pictures, start up some kind of internet relationship, after all we ARE "SOULMATES". To me, soulmates means someone completely understand your innert soul and suffering. We definately know how each other feels.

Jimi, should set up a place where we can post pictures, meet people and just give ourselves an opportunity to live a normal live as best as we can. Afterall they do it on myspace, match.com, ect.

I had a girlfriend last year. She was one of the best thing that happend to me in a very long time. She made me forget about my problem. I guess I was happy that someone loved me for who I am and not what I smell like.

I will be the first to put up my picture so se can know each others more than behind a computer screen.

john
i can post my picture here.. i don't mind.

how do you get girlfriends ocean :( tell me how do you aproach the girl and tell her about your problem?
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Post by Busted »

You don't have to tell her ya know know. You can always wait till she says it, and then you just respond "Yea, that's the reason why I don't like to have conversations with other people". If she understands it's "Yippee-ki-yay mother****er".

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Post by noptical »

You don't need to tell her anything, you need CONFIDENCE. If you tell it to someone she will be more turned off by the fact that you are whining than that you have bb...
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