PLEASE HELP....HOW DO I DISCUSS MY BB WITH LOVEONES

[crazy_beautiful]

Hi everyone! I'm new here..Hi tocute! I've been visiting this site for 6 mos,but I was too shy to join.Then I found out that there are some pretty women who have BB.so id like to share my story too.. I am 23 years old..I also got the looks, I am beautiful and a talented person..unfortunately, I have BB.

I just wanna share something..

During my childhood days.I have so many illnesses. I remember I had this small lump on my throat and it was diagnosed as primary complex..my pedia gave me antibiotics until one day I could not find the lump anymore, and nobody is telling me that I have bad breath because I was 7 yrs old back then.. The thing is,i know one relative of mine, had the same problem but in his case he was having fever and cold sweats and the lump is larger than mine and antibiotic could not do good,so an ENT doctor performed surgery to him..he was suffering from bad breath before but after the operation it was gone..as in totally gone

I think the lump on my throat is still inside but it is not palpable outside..

I have many friends,,i Had many BF"s and i am very popular during HS.I dont have B.O just to clear that.Until one day,4th yr HS, I noticed my seatmate keeps on rubbing her nose all the time and everytime i tried to ask something she immediately look away..and then days have passed everyone talking behind my back..saying smells like fart..i dont know BB could smell like fart..and I could not distinguish mine because I could not smell it myself..but i was aware that they are talking about me..so i carry gum and bought alcohol mouthwashes and sprays which did not help..they laugh at me..

before those things happened i was not eating breakfast at all..not just breakfast but even lunch..i eat crackers and water the whole day..I started doing that because me and my first love broke up..so i believe its a big factor..

Then I changed my diet then but it does not go back to normal..until now i still see people strange looks rubbing their noses and they always ask me why I talk so softly and why I am shy..

I am a graduating in college 5 days from now.. I still carry this burden..all my friend know and my family knows my problem,,they said its all in the mind..maybe there are times I could control it like brushing 4 times a day,floss and using mouthwash and carry a gum.. I was so jealous of the people who brush their teeth just one time and they do not smell..

To add, since I was a child up to now I always get sick..specially throat infections like pharyngitis,sinusitis, tonsillitis and also asthma..i think the cause can be in the mouth,neck,stomach and lungs..

I will write again soon..I just need to focus on my exams..Ill be happy to answer all your questions if you have..and I know God will help us all the way.. I have few attempts in suicidal..but always keep on track to God.. smile even bad people hurt your feelings..

[tocute4this]

Hi everyone! I'm new here..Hi tocute! I've been visiting this site for 6 mos,but I was too shy to join.Then I found out that there are some pretty women who have BB.so id like to share my story too.. I am 23 years old..I also got the looks, I am beautiful and a talented person..unfortunately, I have BB.

I just wanna share something..

During my childhood days.I have so many illnesses. I remember I had this small lump on my throat and it was diagnosed as primary complex..my pedia gave me antibiotics until one day I could not find the lump anymore, and nobody is telling me that I have bad breath because I was 7 yrs old back then.. The thing is,i know one relative of mine, had the same problem but in his case he was having fever and cold sweats and the lump is larger than mine and antibiotic could not do good,so an ENT doctor performed surgery to him..he was suffering from bad breath before but after the operation it was gone..as in totally gone

I think the lump on my throat is still inside but it is not palpable outside..

I have many friends,,i Had many BF"s and i am very popular during HS.I dont have B.O just to clear that.Until one day,4th yr HS, I noticed my seatmate keeps on rubbing her nose all the time and everytime i tried to ask something she immediately look away..and then days have passed everyone talking behind my back..saying smells like fart..i dont know BB could smell like fart..and I could not distinguish mine because I could not smell it myself..but i was aware that they are talking about me..so i carry gum and bought alcohol mouthwashes and sprays which did not help..they laugh at me..

before those things happened i was not eating breakfast at all..not just breakfast but even lunch..i eat crackers and water the whole day..I started doing that because me and my first love broke up..so i believe its a big factor..

Then I changed my diet then but it does not go back to normal..until now i still see people strange looks rubbing their noses and they always ask me why I talk so softly and why I am shy..

I am a graduating in college 5 days from now.. I still carry this burden..all my friend know and my family knows my problem,,they said its all in the mind..maybe there are times I could control it like brushing 4 times a day,floss and using mouthwash and carry a gum.. I was so jealous of the people who brush their teeth just one time and they do not smell..

To add, since I was a child up to now I always get sick..specially throat infections like pharyngitis,sinusitis, tonsillitis and also asthma..i think the cause can be in the mouth,neck,stomach and lungs..

I will write again soon..I just need to focus on my exams..Ill be happy to answer all your questions if you have..and I know God will help us all the way.. I have few attempts in suicidal..but always keep on track to God.. smile even bad people hurt your feelings..

Hey crazy_beautiful,

It's sad so many of us suffer from bb and there is no cure for it. What's even more disturbing is the Doctors can't figure out what's causing this. It seems to me they can run all sorts of test to diagnose patients with diseases, what’s so difficult with finding the underlying problem in patience’s who suffer from bb. Is it too costly to run so many different tests….or, they don’t think bb is life threatening enough; so, it’s not that important. Doctors never seem concern about bb to me. They think antibiotics are the cure for every thing. Every time I go to the dr. office for bb they give me antibiotics. I’ve been taking antibiotics for 9 years. And, my bb has gotten worse over the years. So, now we know it’s not a bacteria infection. What's next?

I wish they would run a series of test using the process of elimination to determine the cause of the patience’s bb. And, threat the actual problem. That's my focus right now! What is causing my bb. I don't want to treat the bb with temporary solutions. I want to be cured! Honestly, I don't believe any of those over the counter products or online mouth washes/tooth pastes and etc... will cure my bb. If your bb was caused by poor hygiene, that would be an excellent solution; however, if you condition is medical than you need to treat the actual medical condition to cure the bb.

And, I am working on finding the underlying problem to cure it once and for all. I don’t care if my Physician is tired of seeing me. I’m going to keep going for different referrals every chance I get. By the time I finish, I would have seen every specialist there is. And, I don’t mind getting a second option. LOL

I researched all of the possible causes of bb and I’m going to see a specialist for each cause until they find the problem. And, if that doesn’t work I’m changing Doctor(s) and do it all over again.

[maclean]

right,tocuteforthis i didnt mean to upset you but we are here to find a cure not to say how attractive we are,im sure you are but there is no point in mentioning it here.the last thing i want is for you to top your self so please dont even think like that we are all here for you and ready to talk when ever you need us.i am very sorry for being horrible to you i truely am.x
as for gabriel you old granny we all no your dear prices are a load of crap and in the end what would we walk away with a mouth wash how bloody perfetic.why dont you listern to jimi and answer his question and dont ever judge me you silly women. 100% what a stupid comment.

[tocute4this]

right,tocuteforthis i didnt mean to upset you but we are here to find a cure not to say how attractive we are,im sure you are but there is no point in mentioning it here.the last thing i want is for you to top your self so please dont even think like that we are all here for you and ready to talk when ever you need us.i am very sorry for being horrible to you i truely am.x
as for gabriel you old granny we all no your dear prices are a load of crap and in the end what would we walk away with a mouth wash how bloody perfetic.why dont you listern to jimi and answer his question and dont ever judge me you silly women. 100% what a stupid comment.

Thanks Mclean! I guess you're right, that wasn't of any importance. I'll be more mindful of such statements. Good Luck!

[Jimi Stein]

Gabriel I need to know who you are, you posted from the same computer than Bosey, so I doubt you are only some assistant that is not close to bosey, because otherwise she would not just give you access to her computer.

I think the same as maclean you are really Bosey in person

Please reveal your real identity. Otherwise you can not post here anymore.,

[crazy_beautiful]

tocute,
I know how you feel ,when you have been doing everything and people still think you have bad oral hygiene..it suckS! sometimes I could control my BB..I always need to brush my teeth after every meals or after 3 hours.. antibiotics help for a short time and then BB becomes worse if you stop it..I believe doctors are trying their best to solve our problem.. I just hope there is a particular treatment,an effective one or a medicine.. I will pray for us..

just a question..I would like to ask if there is anything that I could take to reduce bad breath for a longer time..because next week is our graduation day..and the even is going to take long..i have no time to brush my teeth..does chlorophyll works?vit. c? help!!!!

takecare everyone!

[mike987]

I've already offered to pay them 10X the amount to heal me and was refused, because "scientists don't work that way" to paraphrase. Scientists also rarely claim 100% of anything, to play that card.

Anyway, so what? This is serious here. We are trying to help people here. This is going to take unconventional methods to get people to try your clinic. All it takes is one success. My donation would cover others' treatment. When everyone is healed, we all spread the word, and rid the world of this problem. Your clinic will be famous, you will be a millionaire, and you can use the profit to treat other illnesses, or to do other great things. I don't see the problem.

Times a-wastin'! Lets get someone over to your clinic, and see what transpires. Do you want to make real history or not?

Huh?? Why would you have to pay 10x the amount? They aren't willing to treat you at the normal price??

What exactly is going on here

[john]

tocute,
I know how you feel ,when you have been doing everything and people still think you have bad oral hygiene..it suckS! sometimes I could control my BB..I always need to brush my teeth after every meals or after 3 hours.. antibiotics help for a short time and then BB becomes worse if you stop it..I believe doctors are trying their best to solve our problem.. I just hope there is a particular treatment,an effective one or a medicine.. I will pray for us..

just a question..I would like to ask if there is anything that I could take to reduce bad breath for a longer time..because next week is our graduation day..and the even is going to take long..i have no time to brush my teeth..does chlorophyll works?vit. c? help!!!!

takecare everyone!

did you try nasal rinse already? stage 1 en 2.
it works for me.

[sweetnlow]

Maclean

I don't think tocute4this meant anything when she said that she was attractive. I know exactly how she feels because I'M ATTRACTIVE TOO!!!

Dealing with bb makes you feel less than what you are. So if some of us want to blow our on horn I think people shouldn't have any problems with it.

BB makes people feel unpretty and being a female it really effects your self esteem. I'm not saying that it doesn't effect men but some people think it's ok for a man to be a little stinky.

Women are so venomous and they love to rub your faults in your face just because a person maybe attractive, smart, have a nice shape, nice hair, have nice lips, nice finger nails and so on. I know some women on this forum will agree with me.

So don't think people are being shallow or cocky. Sometimes people with BB need to say and feel something good about their self.

Yes I no our main goal is to find a cure but sometime people are just venting.

[maclean]

pardon me but how is it ok for men to smell a little im sure no man would think that, and please dont start telling me how bb effects one in there life because i have been living with this for many of years to.
what is the point on you saying HOW ATTRACTIVE YOU ARE, sorry just dont get it.

[Busted]

What's the point of living your life with CH? Dunno, dunno, dunno.

[destined]

I feel your pain and I feel so frustrated right now. I believe I am dedicated to resolving this issue but I am running out of ideas, patience and time. I was recently appointed to a new role that requires me to travel/fly, and interface with people in order to build relationships. This job is perfect for me but I am afraid of the constant rejection and creating a bad reputation for myself and company. My new boss has total faith in me, but my enthusiam is low because of the bb. I also have a great man in my life now that loves me very much. We share and talk about everything except my bb secret. I don't know how to tell him or to even bring it up to him. I lost my last relationship as a result of this problem and I don't want to continue to isolate myself from the world. I don't know what to do anymore.....

My faith is strong and I pray for healing and understanding all the time. And now that I have found this site I will pray for you too. There is a reason and cure behind this issue and I believe it will be revealed.

I welcome any support or suggestions. My first business trip is coming up and I really would like to improve my bb before then.

[emotional rescue]

i´m atractive too lets make a party

[stridinglady]

I shall apologise beforehand for venting such spleen, however, can all these supposendly attractive women get over themselves, I cannot believe that you think it is important to constantly make reference to your attractiveness and furthermore to have the audacity to say that it is ok for men to be a bit stinky is absolutely beyond me.

I am female and whether I look like a supermodel or bog beast is of no relevance, everyone has a right to a cure for this debilitating disease.

Here here maclean, if I was you I wouldnt be apologising.

Here's a suggestion - why dont all you attractive people bugger off and set up a web forum of your own as much more if this nonsense will im sure compel people to not converse with you any further.

I am completely outraged at these living monuments to pompousness!

[crazy_beautiful]

I am sorry but I hope you all understand that I was just telling my story..Because I have been hurt by a lot of men..at first they say hi to me or even say you know your pretty and try to approach me but then the day after it seems like they don't want to talk to me again..
I will not say those words again from now on but sometimes we need to say those things to ourselves everyday so we can overcome the pain by giving compliments to ourselves and always thinking positive..we all have different situations..we all battling with this problem and many other problems too..I hope that everybody should give time to learn to listen and be therapeutic..

I wanted to have friends here but I could not take the negative comments..I am a very sensitive person that sometimes I cry especially when words like this ------>Here's a suggestion - why don't all you attractive people bugger off and set up a web forum of your own as much more if this nonsense will im sure compel people to not converse with you any further.

Well take care everyone and God Bless always!
I'll write again soon but a different topic so I can gain friends and I hope I can help others as well as myself.