It's really not that bad. I've had long relationships before; 3-4 years long. I think some girls don't care as much about it as we think they do. If you can find on that does not get offended that much with BB, then you got a good one. I think for me, what works is my "don't care" attitude. I have this "don't care" attitude for most of the things in my life. If they see that you don't care about it, then they probabaly won't care so much about it also. However, if you are constantly depressed and worried about it, then they will do the same.Archimonde wrote:I'm always amazed that some people with bb are able to have long term relationships. i don't know how they do it.
My first long relationship was with one the the hottest girls in my high school, we got together when I was in college. I didn't know much about my BB back then, in fact, I don't think I knew I had it, but looking back I know it was there. I know I was probably offending everyone that I passed by unlike right now, where I am taking a lot of precautions to reduce my offense. Still, she stayed with me for 3 years and I broke it off because I didn't want to move to San Diego.