Don't Speak...

[sharmayne]

So let me share with my fellow sufferers what happened to me yesterday. Well it was the saddest day of my life, my Father died of cancer yesterday. I just came back from seeing him at the hospital and I stopped at my local store just two blocks from my house to get a bottle of water. I was dehydrated from crying so much.

The owner was behind the counter with his brother who then pointed to me and did the quiet sign with the index finger over his lips and then the zip it sign, you know the key locked lips (my lips are sealed) and pointed back at me. I acted like I was confused but I knew exactly what he meant. (Dont you speak your breath is a killer). His brother must of been a little embarrased because he said oh he's just saying hi. Yeah ok in sign language. I just got back in my car and cried for myself and the loss of my Dad.

Some days I just don't have the strenghth to deal with this when there are bigger things happening.

[findacure]

Im so sorry to hear about ur farther Sharmayne xx

That guy was totally rude for doing that, it makes me sick how ppl go out of thier way just to be nasty, im guessing it make them feel better about themselves.

If that was me i would have asked him what is that surpose to mean! Over the years ive come to the point where i speak out. i have confronted ppl in the past and they usaully just act like they dont no what im on about, but it shows them that i aint stupid i no that, that comment/gesture was directed at me,and i aint afraid to confront them about it.

but that was the last thing you needed after the events of that day. Some people are just pure ignorant. But stay strong and just remember time will heal.

[Ice]

sorry about ure father,
about the comments,gestures well it's in human nature to put down others, to make urself feel better. Even we witnessed this on ourselfs, lets be honest...Unless life teaches u, what ure doing isn't Ok, (I can't say normal because it is)...
U can't really expect people will go:omg u have terrible breath, I'm so sorry u didn't have time to brush ure teeth, here take a gum....
That's how they look at it. It is the same as when u see a person with acne on their face and most just think, Well use clean towls, eat healthier food! do some excercises, spend more time on sun.....everyone has a piece of advice. It is the extreme cases that "shock" u, like; and now think about it, do u really think there will be 10000 doctors trying to find a cure?
U know how u go to wor, and u can not wait for those 8 hours to go by? well here's a hint; doctors are no different! do those 8 hoursussually more) want to go home, relax, wait for paycheck...do u think they will use their free time to discoved cure for some cosmetic problem???...thats the job companies do, like colgate, acne free do;)
I'm off topic, but needed to put t out;)
call me crazy, but I seriously belive cure is near