The opportunities passed and the feeling of frustration...

me · Post by me » Sun Sep 27, 2009 6:40 am

Ok so I have this crappy job, and theres this chick at my work who was hired just for the summer, she left today, and I feel frustrated, impotent and cursed. The reason for my frustration is that I really liked her but I was never able to really get close to her, or talk that much, or anything because of my poopbreath. The worst thing is that I am quite sure that she had a crush on me too. I know this story may sound childish, but to be honest I feel like a kid more and more. The poop breath is making me regress. Also this frustration and impotent feeling is not just because of this particular case, but because is not the first time this happens. I know this post is usless, but is kind of a therapy for me.

So now I would like to know your stories, I'm sure that I'm not the only person that this happens because of the BB.

vilenin89 · Post by **vilenin89** » Sun Sep 27, 2009 7:28 am

the key word here was "regression" i just turned 20 and i feel the same way... im back at home with the semester off wasting away, playing video games, reading... feel like im 15 without the joys of school.

im getting my tonsils out and deviated septum fixed on Monday so let see how that goes

elliott · Post by **elliott** » Mon Sep 28, 2009 1:35 am

I used to feel that way, but I'm so used to this, that I'm numb to it.

But yeah, my bad breath has not affected my looks so it's hard when a nice lady wants me to do something... and I can't LOL.... nowadays I just don't even look.

ElGrizzle · Post by **ElGrizzle** » Mon Sep 28, 2009 6:44 pm

I would forget about it, and relax. Don't cloud your mind with it, as stress is one of the causes of the BB.

I don't even care sometimes, and just go for it. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Its not a big deal. I know that gum doesn't always work to eliminate the BB. But a fresh piece in the mouth can boost the confidence if you are planning on doing something.

Ive managed to hook up with a few girls, make lots of friends, and keep friends over the years because my personality always shines through. But Ive never had a serious girlfriend, cause im too picky. lol, ironic.

Just be ok with it, you will feel much better, and that alone will give you the confidence to get the girl. Who cares if you have bad breath, you are awesome!

I go out all the time. And my smell flares up when im stressed out. So stay cool. stay cool.

bacchus · Post by **bacchus** » Tue Nov 10, 2009 8:15 pm

Yea i know how you feel 'me' i lost the love of my life due to this condition plus countless opportunities in love and life in general. Basically im in my early 30s and have never had a girlfriend - im not ugly or stupid - got BB when i was 13 just as i was getting interested in girls ironically. Now i just look back on 20 years of misery and a wasted life, so while everyone else has families of their own im alone. Its a vicious cycle since the depression i have now makes me less attractive and i can barely get out of bed most days.
I cant make friends with other men because of the enevitable conversations about previous relationships which crop up, which i have never had. Its impossible to blag it after a period of time, so here i am living an empty life. Ive thought about doing the obvious thing many times but i just dont have the courage.

Jay7 · Post by **Jay7** » Wed Nov 11, 2009 1:36 am

I also feel the same, broke up with my girl 3 years ago and had this BB. I know she wants to get back together but I just can't talk to her face to face. I love her, but I know the result even we get back together. I have to let her go, it just hurt so much at this moment.

I'm starting to get very depress and fill like dieing everyday I wake up. I hope everyone have bb can be resolve soon and get on with normal life.

Jay