brokenbuthopeful wrote:lets see it like this mate. we r depreseed,lonely and stressed. all these feelings made us less outgoing and more "in going". we want to blame any one,anything for our BB. but bcoz of our negative thinking,we mostly blame our own selves and our own acts. spanking ur monkey and BB has no connection at all. as BB mostly starts during puberty so some people may attach it to wanking. make it simple, dont make it complex mate. BB is part of our fate. now we have to live with it.so stop looking 4 reasons. and start looking for inspiration. inspiration to live a normal life. cheers.
May i ask you a simple question? very simple?
have you cured your bb to be in this position saying this have connection with bb, this have not?
i know my post wasn't very well written, but have you ever understand it before making this comment? Because, if you did, only then you will know that i wasn't saying Eureka!" Eureka! this is the reason. no my friend, i was simply sharing "truthfully" a simple observation. that's the more i mistarbate the more and the worse my bb gets, and YES IVE BEEN DEALING WITH THIS TORTURE FOR YEARS. AND I KNOW HOW TO LIVE WITH IT. i am not looking 4 reasons i am looking to a reasons for my problem i am looking for inspiration but i dont spen my day watching TV and hoping to come across a miracle cure. and you know what i meen.
i have changed my mind about several ideas and theories but i wont allow myself even for single day to make such statments like: this have connect this have not.. specially to one who is telling me about his own body and what makes his bb worse.
by the way I have to ask one more rude question to you, are even a male or a female?