Just wanted to share a recent incident happened to me. Although i think every1 in my team knows about my bb but still nobody questioned me..few days back some of them went for lunch... as it was very informal one so i avoided it....i thought nobody will pay much attention....but now i understand the mistake i made....as i was not with them during lunch...they must have gossiped about me and since then they are asking me wierd questions...
![Embarassed :oops:](./images/smilies/icon_redface.gif)
![Embarassed :oops:](./images/smilies/icon_redface.gif)
Otherwise the are very humble but whenever they ask this question of not having lunch with them ...i just make up some excuse...
I have one option..as i am little senior to them shall i strictly ask them "do u have any problem?" or shall i just smile and give random answer which they know is wrong.. i hope my rude answer should not blow this matter out of proportion...
I am so frustrated......thanks to this forum.. i feel better.
btw what do u think...shall i answer back strictly....what should i do if they again go for team lunch???? if i go they may ask we why i never came before...these thoughts have so much occupied my mind that i have lost the initial enthusiasm to fight against bb.
My suggestion: you may avoid our friends but dont avoid your Colleagues as it is with them you have to spend a major part of day.