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Anyone interested in meeting up in NYC?
We can ask eachother whatever is on our mind without being judged and learn a lot about our situation. I just ask that we dont end up just PMing back and forth without actually meeting up and we are 100% honest with eachother. Please contact me if interested.
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NYC Meet Up
Hello,I am located in NY and would love to attend a group meeting with everyone.All i need is a date and time =)
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We can get a group meeting going if we get a few participants. 3.5 hours is a pretty long trip. I wouldn't know what to expect exactly besides assessing eachother and talking about bb (and possibly re-assessing on the forums afterwards), but a meeting couldn't hurt. Feel free to drop suggestions or when you are free.
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just fyi, this resulted in a couple of flakers. I feel like you can learn so much from meeting with people and getting honest feedback from them and by not taking advantage of this opportunity I really have to question whether or not you're serious about learning about your illness, but to each his own. If anyone else is interested please PM or reply, but definitely do not waste our time
You may be right about meeting and getting feedback from each other, I would love to start one in my area. But it may be difficult for some to go out and meet people, most of us have been rejected, talked about, etc, etc.., so I don't think calling people flakers or telling them not to waste your time is very inviting. Just keep having your meetings maybe people will build up the courage to come. Enjoy!
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understood but really we are probably the last people who would judge you. You are dealing with people who are in the same or similar boat as you are, who you would never meet otherwise. There's really no one here to impress. TBH if or when I meet up with anyone on here, I will blow directly in their face and talk to them like I didnt have a problem at all.. why? because that'll be the most effective way for me to find out about my breath. I don't mean to come off as mean but we may need a reality check that sitting around feeling sorry for ourselves isnt going to help. Like I said before we have no reason to impress anyone on here so why hold back? if you have a good understanding of your breath and feel that a face to face meeting would not help you, then a meetup isnt for you. But if you do have questions, then why not take advantage?thf wrote:You may be right about meeting and getting feedback from each other, I would love to start one in my area. But it may be difficult for some to go out and meet people, most of us have been rejected, talked about, etc, etc.., so I don't think calling people flakers or telling them not to waste your time is very inviting. Just keep having your meetings maybe people will build up the courage to come. Enjoy!
Anyway, good luck all!

edit: and the reason why I asked that they dont waste OUR time is because someone puts forth the effort in trying to organize it and after getting responses, tried to organize a meetup and in the process, people decided they no longer wanted to reply
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I think we can meet up in NY over a bowling game or pool club or something and have a good time. We will all know what's common in between us so we don't necessarily have to talk about it and cry a river or boil our blood over it.
If the BB conversation starts up? Fine ! We will make fun of BB itself, and have a good time.
Lets laugh it out..... F-U bb
If the BB conversation starts up? Fine ! We will make fun of BB itself, and have a good time.
Lets laugh it out..... F-U bb
